Dear Fellow Children of
God,
Last
week I traveled to New England and back to attend the funeral of my uncle who
was my dad’s only brother, and my god-father.
I thought I knew my uncle pretty well.
But, as has happened at other funerals for family members, I learned
things about my uncle I had not known before.
In
preparing for the funeral my cousins had taken out my uncle’s military uniform
and mementos. I had known my uncle had
served in France during WWII. But, I had
not known that he was an administrative aid to General Eisenhower. I had not known that he was in Paris and
Berlin. (I now have his pictures.) I had
not known that he had earned the Bronze Star for meritorious service.
My
uncle also taught high school English for many years, and I had known that he
was an especially favorite teacher of many.
But, I hadn’t known how many high school yearbooks had been dedicated to
him. I had not known that he had won
writing awards in college. I did not
know he had a poem published in The New Yorker magazine.
I had
personally thought my uncle was special.
He was a man of faith, an active leader in his church, and respected in
the community. He had a wonderful sense
of humor and was faithful in love for his family. I knew he prayed for me and many others. I had known all this. But there was so much more special about my
uncle that I had not known.
Each human being is special. First,
each person is special because we have been personally crafted by the loving,
powerful hand of God Himself. In Psalm
139 God inspired David to write, “13 For
you created my inmost being; you knit me together in my mother's womb. 14 I
praise you because I am fearfully and wonderfully made; your works are
wonderful, I know that full well.”
Every
person is a gift from God, often in ways that we don’t know and
understand. God inspired St. Paul to
write in 1 Corinthians 12, “7 Now to
each one the manifestation of the Spirit is given for the common good.” Inside each of us is a special gift or
ability of the Holy Spirit. God intends
us to use these gifts for the blessing of others.
Just in case you think that these words are just “self-esteem”, let me tell
assure you that Himself considers each person so special that He personally
paid the ultimate price to save us. In
Romans 5:8 Scripture tells us, “But God
demonstrates his own love for us in this: While we were still sinners, Christ
died for us.”
So,
if I have spent so much time with my uncle but there was still so much special
about him that I did not know, how about the person standing next to you in the
line at the grocery store? What about
the person sitting next to you in worship, or in the movie theater? In fact, have you thought about the unique
ways in which God has made and blessed you so you can serve Him and bless
others? You see, because of God’s hand in
our lives, each of us is special.
I
don’t like the term “self-esteem” because it seems to mean that we need to
build ourselves up. In reality, we don’t
have to build ourselves up, God has exalted us Himself with His creating and
saving love. Each person has been
created and blessed in such a special way by God himself that we have much to
offer those around us. My uncle
did. That is how God made you too.
A
Child of God thankful for the blessing of others in my life,
Pastor
Jonathan
P.S. On this Memorial Day weekend I am especially
thankful for the service of my uncle to our country.
P.P.S. This is my favorite picture of my uncle and
myself, taken at the 50th anniversary celebration of my mom and my
dad. https://picasaweb.google.com/114993745799525883148/UncleSonnyAndAuntDot#5746764022830753442
Here
are some pictures of my uncle from the last 10 years. https://picasaweb.google.com/jonrock53/UncleSonnyAndAuntDot?authuser=0&feat=directlink
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ABOUT ‘THOUGHTS FROM THE PASTOR’ - I am
sending these e-mail messages, hopefully weekly, to all St. John members and
friends whose e-mails I have. (I am always adding new names of friends
and members – in case you are just receiving this e-mail for the first
time.) However, if you don’t want to receive this e-mail, please let me
know, and I’ll gladly leave your name off my list for this message. . . Or, if
you know someone who would like to receive one of these e-mails, please send me their e-mail address.
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