Dear Fellow Children of
God,
About 15 years ago, while
at a worship conference in the Chicago area, a group of St. John members and I
worshiped at a nationally known church after the conference. The day we worshiped was Fathers’ Day and
fatherhood was the focus of the sermon.
I won’t forget the sermon because I was so disappointed. The preacher that day talked about King David
and what kind of father he was. This
famous pastor pointed to David’s shortcomings as a father, which David surely
had. The pastor then encouraged church
members to turn to modern day teaching and counselors for help and direction in
their families.
As we celebrate a day set
aside to honor fathers it should not be a surprise that there is no perfect
earthly father. Being a good father is a
challenging job. As a father myself I
can think of times I was too harsh or strict, and other times I was too
lenient. I can think of times as a
father I lost my temper that I later regretted.
While I have tried to set a life example for my children through a
Christian life of faith and love, I know that my children have lived with me
and they have seen my worst as well as my best.
There are no perfect earthly fathers.
However, the
thing that disappointed me the most about the sermon that day in Chicago is
that the preacher did not mention our Heavenly Father. Scripture is full of teaching on God as our
loving heavenly father. In the Old
Testament we are told in “As a father has compassion on his children, so the LORD has compassion on
those who fear him;” (Psalm
103:13). In the Sermon
on the Mount Jesus teaches, “If you,
then, though you are evil, know how to give good gifts to your children, how
much more will your Father in heaven give good gifts to those who ask him!”
(Matthew 7:11) No, there are no perfect
earthly fathers, but we all have a heavenly father who loves us, who shows
compassion, who provides for our needs.
For our greatest need, the consequences of our rebellion and sin, our
Father acted in love and compassion and sent His only begotten Son to save
us. There is one perfect Father – God
Himself!
While I have some regrets as father, I have always loved my four
children. When I have struggled I have
sought to make my first source of help and guidance the fatherly love of God. Just because I have failed at times does not
mean that I am giving up on being a loving and faithful father. In fact, knowing that all fathers struggle
gives me comfort for times I have failed.
Knowing that God is not only father of all, but also father of my
children, encourages me to know that our Heavenly Father is watching over my
children. God’s forgiveness and help
give me strength and direction to continue working to live a life of faith and
love for my children and now my grandchildren.
No, there are no perfect fathers.
But, many of us have had fathers who have loved us and taught us and
raised us to know Jesus as our Savior. I
know that my dad willingly took on a difficult job and faithfully worked at
that job to love and bless me and my brothers and sister. And, while not perfect, my dad did a really
good job of being father to a son who caused him some trouble. Such faithful effort in a difficult job is
certainly worth honoring.
May
God guide and bless our fathers and our families in all His love and compassion.
A
Child of God , my Heavenly Father – What a Blessing!
Pastor
Jonathan
P.S. Here is a picture of my dad and
my brothers and sister taken this past January.
https://picasaweb.google.com/114993745799525883148/RockeyFamilyGatheringMatthewLeonSBaptism#5700975016796150818
P. P.S. Last week my devotion talked
about options for worship when we are away from home. Please remember our Wednesday worship. This is another opportunity for worship when
gone on the weekend. Wednesday worship
is held at 6:30 p.m. each Wednesday.
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ABOUT ‘THOUGHTS FROM THE PASTOR’ - I am
sending these e-mail messages, hopefully weekly, to all St. John members and
friends whose e-mails I have. (I am always adding new names of friends
and members – in case you are just receiving this e-mail for the first
time.) However, if you don’t want to receive this e-mail, please let me
know, and I’ll gladly leave your name off my list for this message. . . Or, if
you know someone who would like to receive one of these e-mails, please send me their e-mail address.
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