Wednesday, February 23, 2022

'Weather Guilt' and Compassion

Dear Fellow Children of God, 

 

On Tuesday, February 22, Kathy and I received a call from our daughter.  Mary is a Social Studies teacher at Wasilla High School.  Mary was not expecting another “remote learning day”, but you know the weather Alaska has experienced this winter.  Mary shared that, not expecting the remote learning day, she had to scramble to get her computer together so she could fulfill her duties as a teacher.  But, this devotion is not focusing on computers, which are their own source of frustration.  The focus of this devotion is on the weather, and the frustration it has brought this winter to those in Alaska. 

 

What a winter we have had in Alaska!  (I used the word “we” advisedly) From the snow and extended deep cold of November, with more snow in December, to the winds of January, the Alaskan weather this winter has caused more challenges than normal for work and travel.  However, then add to the November through January weather, the almost continuous snow of February, followed by rain, and then snow, and then rain.  You know that this weather has led to flooding in parking lots and the streets, and also led to avalanches along a number of well-traveled roads. Alaskan residents have experienced more than just frustration.  All a person has to do is to look at how many days the schools have been closed, whether from broken pipes or from unsafe roads.  That number of “snow days” and “remote learning days” tells the story of quite a winter.  It’s one thing to have snow and cold.  We expect that.  But the winds and the rains and the closed schools and closed roads, that is downright ugly!

 

However, I confess that I personally have what I might call, “Weather guilt.”  Mary called to talk to us because . . . we are in Florida.  Yup, she was struggling to get her computer situated in case another “remote learning day” was declared, and I had just returned from fishing in 82 degree weather.  She was facing the snow and rain and cold, and the havoc that weather is playing on Alaskan lives, and we were enjoying a warm day in the south. That’s “weather guilt.”  As we have spent time with family and friends in the south, a regular phrase coming out of our daughter’s mouth to our ears has been, “I don’t want to know how warm it is there!”  J 

 

I do understand.  Kathy and I experienced some of the snow, some of the cold, and we were in Palmer for the January windstorms.  In December I put my life in my hands, and in the hands of my Lord, driving across the Turnagain Pass on a trip to Sterling in what was an unexpected snowstorm.  But, while we were in AK for much of the weather, we have not been there the whole time.  Having experienced some of the struggles of this winter we can understand, we can sympathize with our family and with our friends and church members as the weather turns ugly.

 

I can share that God calls Christians to have compassion for one another.  He wants us to care about each other and to care for each other in those difficult times of life. One of the experiences that helps us to care for a person as they struggle, is when we ourselves have faced the same struggles.  In 2 Corinthians Paul shares with members of the Church of Corinth the blessing and call they have from their struggles.  3 Praise be to the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of compassion and the God of all comfort, 4 who comforts us in all our troubles, so that we can comfort those in any trouble with the comfort we ourselves have received from God.”  God comforts us when we face trouble, so that we can use the comfort our Lord has given us to, in turn, help and comfort others facing the same struggles.  Kathy and I do understand this winter’s challenges, and we do sympathize!

 

The writer to the Hebrews teaches us that God doesn’t just care about us in our weaknesses and trials, but because of Jesus, God understands our suffering.  Because of Jesus, God can and does help us in powerful ways, “15 For we do not have a high priest who is unable to sympathize with our weaknesses, but we have one who has been tempted in every way, just as we are-- yet was without sin. 16 Let us then approach the throne of grace with confidence, so that we may receive mercy and find grace to help us in our time of need.”  (Hebrews 4:15-16)

 

Because of this sacrificial caring and sharing of our burdens by Jesus, Christians are uniquely suited to care for others. “32 Be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other, just as in Christ God forgave you.”  In Christ, God has been compassionate and forgiving to us.  One of the ways we show compassion is when we forgive others.

 

However, it seems more and more that, instead of caring about one another, people in our world care about themselves.  It seems more and more that, instead of helping others in trouble, people in today’s world look down on those going through struggles.  Unfortunately, even Christians are accused of being unsympathetic and lacking compassion, often with good reason.

 

When we were helpless, Jesus took on our suffering.  Understanding our lost condition, Jesus died and rose to forgive us and save us.  When we receive God’s understanding, His saving compassion, and His help in Jesus, the Lord is equipping us and calling us to have compassion on others.  And yes, I am sorry about your difficult winter weather this year.

 

A Child of God, Seeking to Use My Suffering and Struggles to Understand and Help Others,

Pastor Jonathan

 

P.S.  Instead of fishing as much this week, Kathy and I visited friends, Rick and Kristi Armstrong, in Orlando from February 17 to February 19.  Rick was best man in our wedding.  Kristi made the wedding cake, and was a bridesmaid.  They visited us in Alaska this fall, and we spent time with them this month.  Here are some pictures from a trip to Cocoa Beach.  (I know – more “weather guilt.”)  https://photos.app.goo.gl/wMhXTWbjQMxMn3kE6

 

P.P.S.  I did have one fishing trip.  I took the advice of a friend from First Lutheran Church and fished in a big lake where I had fished only twice in my life, and where I had never fished by myself.  It was a beautiful day.  I saw and heard wildlife.  However, I maintained my record in that lake of never having caught a fish there, or even having a bite for that matter.  Here are a couple of pictures. https://photos.app.goo.gl/DdDnsfffWc6hWaUk7

 

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            ABOUT THIS DEVOTION - I retired at the end of August 2019 from serving as senior pastor of St. John Lutheran Church in Palmer, AK.  I was writing a weekly devotion previously entitled, "Thoughts from the Pastor."  When I retired many asked me to continue writing these devotions.  So I have continued writing.  However, with life's changes I now call this weekly devotion "Journeys Through Life as a Child of God."  Since I am no longer senior pastor at St. John, I felt it right to only send this message to those who asked to receive it.  (Though I am now serving again part-time at St. John as assistant to the pastor.) 

        So, if you stopped receiving these devotions and wondered why, now you understand.  And, if you are now receiving these devotions and do not wish to receive them, please let me know, and I’ll gladly remove your name from my distribution list.  My e-mail address is jonrock53@mtaonline.net.

        My prayer is that these devotions help each of you in your daily walk with our Lord, Jesus.

 

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Jonathan Rockey

Child of God

Husband, Father, Son, Grandfather

Pastor Emeritus, St. John Lutheran Church

E-Mail: jonrock53@mtaonline.net


 

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