Wednesday, July 9, 2025

How Will They Remember Us? - Desiring to Leave the Eternal Treasures of Jesus with My Children and Grandchildren!

 

Dear Fellow Children of God, 

 

Perhaps grandchildren always think that, to a certain extent, their grandparents are somewhat ‘weird,’ or ‘crazy.’  Afterall, grandparents grew up in a world at least 2 generations separated from the generation of their grandchildren.  However, it seems that my grandson, Jake, really thought I had gone off the deep end recently. As we gathered on June 29 for a family meal, with all four of our children present, I informed them that Kathy and I recently purchased our funerals.  Jake couldn’t stop laughing, and couldn’t believe we were discussing this topic.

 

For Kathy and for me, both of our parents had made these preparations before their deaths.  Then we didn’t have to make difficult choices during a time of loss and stress.  We didn’t have to answer tough questions.  “Did Mom or Dad want to be cremated or buried?  If they wanted to be cremated, what do we do with the ashes?  If they wanted to be buried, what about the casket?  Is this casket too cheap, and perhaps dishonors my parent?  Is this one too expensive, and they would think we are wasting money?  How about a service?  What about graves?”  Kathy and I made these plans and purchases to prevent our children from having to make these decisions when we pass.  You should also know that we are both currently healthy and we are not planning on dying soon. 😊 (Only God knows!)

 

However, there is another story in the background concerning our grandchildren.  Josh and Erin, and their four children, Jake, Emma, Henry, and Annie, two-thirds of our six grandkids, are moving to Olympia Washington, soon.  They drive out of Alaska on July 19, and Josh will serve as principal at Ranier Elementary on McChord AFB.  We are saddened by their leaving. However, I reminded Kathy that my parents were not happy when we moved to Alaska in 1991.  My dad’s family was disappointed when he and my mom and their 5 kids moved from Massachusetts to Florida in 1965.  This is all part of life in today’s world.

 

Therefore, I have been thinking, “How will my grandchildren remember me?”  Will Jake remember his grandfather as a crazy old man who makes his funeral arrangements in advance?  On June 29th, we concluded our meal with a devotion from a book we have often used.  Will Jake remember us as people who are serious about their faith in Jesus?  I did take Jake and his youngest sister, Annie, fishing on Saturday, July 5.  It was a good trip.  I have LOTS of pictures of Jake on fishing trips with me.  Sometimes it was just Jake and me!  Will Jake remember me as someone who spent time with his grandchildren and loved(s) them?

 

How about my other 5 grandchildren?  Listed by age, they are Jackson, Emma, Kendall, Henry, and Annie.  Even if they are not ALL moving away, what have I done, what am I leaving with them with will be a lasting gift?  What have I done which will provide a lasting blessing?  I ask this question not just concerning my grandchildren, but also concerning my children.

 

My devotional readings on July 9 were from Luke 11 and 12.  In Luke 12, Jesus teaches, “29 And do not seek what you are to eat and what you are to drink, nor be worried. 30 For all the nations of the world seek after these things, and your Father knows that you need them. 31 Instead, seek his kingdom, and these things will be added to you. 32 "Fear not, little flock, for it is your Father's good pleasure to give you the kingdom. 33 Sell your possessions, and give to the needy. Provide yourselves with moneybags that do not grow old, with a treasure in the heavens that does not fail, where no thief approaches and no moth destroys. 34 For where your treasure is, there will your heart be also.  (Luke 12:29-35 ESV)

 

As I mentioned, I went through a similar experience as a child.  My parents moved their family from Easthampton, MA, where 5 generations of Rockey’s had lived.  We relocated to Gainesville, FL, in 1965.  Yet, I still have vivid memories of my grandfather, whom I called “Grampy,” and of other relatives.  I remember faith lessons Grampy taught me before we moved, and some he taught me after we were living in separate towns and states. For example, he taught me about forgiveness, when I would get in trouble in school – A LOT!  Grampy taught me not to be prejudiced.  He also impressed on me the importance of church, by his example.  And, when I was confirmed in Florida my grandfather came up to me after the ceremony and said, “I’m proud of you.  I pray you do a better job of keeping your vows than I did in keeping mine.”  WOW!  My grandfather had a GREAT influence on my faith in Jesus. He left eternal blessings with me.

 

I do believe that treasure in heaven is so much more valuable than the things on this earth.  I also believe that it is in the grace of God through Jesus that we receive love and joy and peace . . . eternally.  I believe that in Jesus’ life and death and resurrection we receive life forever.  What can BE more important?  I pray daily that my children and my grandchildren know Jesus, and His eternal gifts of love, and forgiveness, and salvation.  I pray that I have shared with them these gifts of Jesus, and can continue to do so.

 

So, in whose life are you making a difference?  Are you pointing those you love to eternal treasures found in Jesus?

 

A Child of God, Desiring to Leave the Eternal Treasures of Jesus with My Children and Grandchildren!

Pastor Rockey

 

P.S.  You might enjoy this song from Steve Green, “May Those Who Come Behind Us Find Us Faithful!”  Dave Anderson taught me this song!  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MKT5BCmvmq0&list=RDMKT5BCmvmq0&start_radio=1

 

P.P.S.  I am now serving Our Redeemer Lutheran in Chugiak, AK, as part-time Vacancy Pastor. 

 

Regular Bible Studies and Sunday School

 

·       Adult Bible Study continues on Sunday mornings at 9:00 a.m.   The class is studying “Basic Christian Teachings.” On July 6 we studied about heaven and hell.  On July 13 we will study about the Word of God.  Come and join us!

 

·       Summer Sunday School - Children have an opportunity to study during the summer as well.  Leah Rawlins is leading the children in studying the book of Ruth.  At the end of this study they may put what they learned into expression through legos.  All Children are WELCOME! 😊  (However, there was no Sunday School on July 6 (4th of July weekend), nor on August 31 (Labor Day Weekend!)

 

·       The Our Redeemer 4th of July parade cookout took place last Friday, July 4.  Here are some pictures. https://photos.app.goo.gl/9ToG3M2kuThcrncf8

 

·       NATIONAL YOUTH GATHERING 2025 – NEW ORLEANS!  Our Redeemer is sending 6 people to the 2025 LCMS National Youth Gathering in New Orleans.  The Our Redeemer Group leaves on Friday, July 18.  The Rockeys, Jonathan, Kathy, and Mary will be working for the Gathering.  They leave Tuesday morning July 15.  Please keep these people in your prayers.

 

·       In August we will have meetings to discuss upcoming confirmation classes, and perhaps some early communion classes.  Watch for more information.  If anyone desires to attend an adult membership class, that is what we are studying on Sunday mornings at 9.

 

·       The Our Redeemer Call Committee has been formed.  It includes Elder and chairman, Jerry Simpson, also Heidi Enlow, Ruth Keller, Theo Lee, Jacob Lewis, Scott Roelfs, and Martha Wilkins.  They met on June 4, and again on July 1.  The first step in the call process will be to begin a congregational self-study.  The Northwest District has the study and tools to help in this study.  The committee will meet again on July 22, and targets August 15 for inputs from leaders to the congregational self-study.

It is good for a congregation to be patient in the call process.  Please PRAY that as our Lord leads this committee and Our Redeemer in this process, we will follow His guidance.

 

·       MANY CONTINUE TO READ THROUGH THE SCRIPTURE WITH ME IN 2024 and 2025 using the “Today’s Light Devotional Bible.”  We are now in the New Testament!  On Wednesday, July 9, we read Luke 11 and 12, part of Luke’s version of Matthew’s “Sermon on the Mount.”

 

·       Feel free to contact Pastor Rockey at 907-841-4066 if you have any questions about these readings.  Or send an e-mail question to jonrock53@mtaonline.net  I have recently received questions and comments.  It is always good to consider our Lord’s love and guidance. I will TRY to answer, but some things only God knows!

 

P.P.S. Family and Friends:

·       Here are some pictures of my grandfather, Charles Frederick Rockey (Raake) III. https://photos.app.goo.gl/eTa6ezR9euuwg7KS7

 

·       Our garden is doing well.  We have had many meals with salad fixings.  Strawberries are starting to come in too.  Here are some pictures from July 8. https://photos.app.goo.gl/xmPhB8R6VVBxhZvWA

 

·       Here are some pictures of Jake fishing with me through the years.  😊  https://photos.app.goo.gl/mGm5EXuCpDfNZv5q6

 

·       Fishing  -

o   Last Saturday I took grandchildren Jacob and Annabelle fishing at Long Lake.They caught lots of trout.  Here are some pictures.  😊 https://photos.app.goo.gl/XQPRgQ184Jt7wwwL9

 

o   On Sunday, July 6, I took my boat and new motor to the Little Susitna River.  This is perhaps my favorite place to fish in Alaska.  Sadly, I did not see any salmon.  I did however find the location and materials for the new weir, 5 miles upstream from the previous location.  I am thankful, because this opens up some good fishing holes I enjoy.  😊  Here are some pictures.  https://photos.app.goo.gl/abtiQYoU5mySm5hX8

 

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ABOUT THIS DEVOTION - I retired at the end of August 2019 from serving as full-time senior pastor of St. John Lutheran Church in Palmer, AK.  I was writing a weekly devotion previously entitled, "Thoughts from the Pastor."  When I retired many asked me to continue writing these devotions.  So I have continued writing.  However, with life's changes I now call this weekly devotion "Journeys Through Life as a Child of God."  Since I am no longer senior pastor at St. John, I felt it right to only send this message to those who asked to receive it.  (However, I am currently as Vacancy Pastor for Our Redeemer Lutheran Church in Chugiak, AK.)

So, if you stopped receiving these devotions and wondered why, now you understand.  And, if you are now receiving these devotions and do not wish to receive them, please let me know, and I’ll gladly remove your name from my distribution list.  My e-mail address is jonrock53@mtaonline.net.

My prayer is that these devotions help each of you in your daily walk with our Lord, Jesus.

 

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Jonathan Rockey

Child of God

Husband, Father, Son, Grandfather

Vacancy Pastor, Our Redeemer Lutheran Church, Chugiak, AK

Pastor Emeritus, St. John Lutheran Church, Palmer, AK

 

 

 

How great is the love the Father has lavished on us, that we should be called children of God! And that is what we are!” (1 John 3:1 a)

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 


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